diff --git a/node_modules/@hyperswarm/dht-relay/lib/node.js b/node_modules/@hyperswarm/dht-relay/lib/node.js
index 9ee8ef9..8a37655 100644
--- a/node_modules/@hyperswarm/dht-relay/lib/node.js
+++ b/node_modules/@hyperswarm/dht-relay/lib/node.js
@@ -407,7 +407,7 @@ function onNoiseReceive (message) {
   if (message.isInitiator) {
     const handshake = this._handshakes.get(message.id)
 
-    if (handshake) {
+    if (handshake && !handshake.complete) {
       handshake._onNoiseReceive(message)
     }
   } else {